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	<description>Forages up a very steep slope</description>
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		<title>Tyranny of an open Inbox</title>
		<link>http://www.jcurve.info/2008/03/02/tyranny-of-an-open-inbox/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Mar 2008 15:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Justin Lee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I must admit i&#8217;ve been struggling with information overload recently. An open Inbox makes it even worse since you know that whatever that&#8217;s inside the mailbox is still an outstanding issue. Outstanding issues continue to fester in my mind over and over again. It&#8217;s getting tiring.Â Last week I spent so many coffee induced 4-5hr sessions [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must admit i&#8217;ve been struggling with information overload recently. An open Inbox makes it even worse since you know that whatever that&#8217;s inside the mailbox is still an outstanding issue. Outstanding issues continue to fester in my mind over and over again. It&#8217;s getting tiring.Â Last week I spent so many coffee induced 4-5hr sessions of pure concentration just to clear my inbox and ended up sending outÂ <a href="http://www.jcurve.info/2008/02/28/so-many-emails/">easily 400 email replies over the course of 4-5 days</a>.Â Yet I&#8217;m still not done with clearing my Inbox!The writings of Timothy Ferris and how he tackles email overload became vividly clear to me. I thought I could handle it but I really couldn&#8217;t.The first thing I need to do is to recognize that <span style="font-weight: bold" class="Apple-style-span">I have a problem with information overload in my life</span>.Â The next thing I also recognize is that <span style="font-weight: bold" class="Apple-style-span">I&#8217;m an information bottleneck to others. </span>I&#8217;ve become the Router that just can&#8217;t handle the things coming my way and sending them out to people who need it fast enough. Somehow, I&#8217;ve become the ultimate decision maker whom many people depend upon to get things to work. It&#8217;s a good problem I guess but it&#8217;s really taxing for me. During a work day, my life turns into something like that of a trader. I get smses, calls, requests, visits, emails nearly every other minute. I thought I could context switch very well. And I still can. But the fact is, at the end of the day, <span style="font-weight: bold" class="Apple-style-span">the context switching drains me out so much that I can&#8217;t get anything done</span>. The &#8216;anything&#8217; here refers to stuff with substantial creative or intellectual input such as writing a quotation, proposal or contract that are necessary documents in the business world.Â I&#8217;m really sorry to everyone whom I&#8217;ve been delaying getting stuff out to. Really appreciate your patience. I&#8217;m taking great steps to figure out how can this be improved.These are a few things that I&#8217;ve been working on:1. Clearing out my inbox asap. -&gt; Shifting things to a todolist instead of leaving them in the inbox.2. Checking it less often so that I can focus more on stuff.3. Going offline more often Â so that I can have full periods of concentrating.4. Enabling my co-workers to act. Still trying to figure out the best way to empower as much as possible.Hiya, growing pains&#8230; Will be solved withÂ perseverance!Â Â </p>
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		<title>Test Driving Friends and Selectively Irritating People</title>
		<link>http://www.jcurve.info/2007/11/23/test-driving-friends-and-selectively-irritating-people/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2007 13:12:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Justin Lee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really admire Tim Ferriss and all his ridiculous ideas. In fact they&#8217;re really quite good ideas. His latest idea that has thrown up a storm is the idea of test driving your friends and selectively irritating people.
The theory is absolutely right. I don&#8217;t understand why people can get so crazy angry on the thread. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really admire Tim Ferriss and all his ridiculous ideas. In fact they&#8217;re really quite good ideas. His latest idea that has thrown up a storm is the idea of <a href="http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2007/11/15/how-to-test-drive-friends-and-irritate-people/">test driving your friends and selectively irritating people</a>.</p>
<p>The theory is absolutely right. I don&#8217;t understand why people can get so crazy angry on the thread. The first thing that everyone has to realize about this &#8220;shit-testing&#8221; is that girls do it on you all the time! So it&#8217;s actually ok to shit-test people. Afterall, why live a life filled with people who bring negativity to your life.</p>
<p>Life is short. I&#8217;ve had friends who have passed on or been near through near death. It makes you wonder if you&#8217;re really spending every moment of your life well.</p>
<p>I like the way Tim always comes up with unconventional ideas. There&#8217;s where the fun is!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m pretty unconventional myself. That&#8217;s why I loved reading Tim&#8217;s books.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s time I seriously engaged myself in some of the unconventional stuff he&#8217;s been talking about.</p>
<p>Because I think the newest frontier in &#8216;experiences&#8217; is no longer geography bound (travel) but rather mentally bound.</p>
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		<title>This guy is good!</title>
		<link>http://www.jcurve.info/2007/11/20/this-guy-is-good/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Nov 2007 17:13:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Justin Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This guy is good. Isn&#8217;t it interesting to live a life like this?:

In part, this eclecticism is a product of how Mr. Grazer works, turning his own passions into fodder for a film or a television show. For the last 20 years, Mr. Grazer has met each week with a person who is an expert [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2007/11/19/business/media/19grazer.html?_r=1&amp;oref=slogin">guy is good</a>. Isn&#8217;t it interesting to live a life like this?:</p>
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<p>In part, this eclecticism is a product of how Mr. Grazer works, turning his own passions into fodder for a film or a television show. For the last 20 years, Mr. Grazer has met each week with a person who is an expert in science, medicine, politics, fashion, religion â€” anything other than entertainment. He is so serious about the meetings that he has a staff member whose job it is to find interesting people.</p>
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		<title>Halloween was a Real Blast!</title>
		<link>http://www.jcurve.info/2007/11/02/halloween-was-a-real-blast/</link>
		<comments>http://www.jcurve.info/2007/11/02/halloween-was-a-real-blast/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Nov 2007 04:49:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Justin Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Halloween was a real blast for me this last weekend. Celebrated in on Sat. It&#8217;s such a fun festival that everyone should celebrate!!!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Halloween was a <a href="http://nus.facebook.com/album.php?aid=7763&amp;id=227700001">real blast for me</a> this last weekend. Celebrated in on Sat. It&#8217;s such a fun festival that everyone should celebrate!!!</p>
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		<title>Beautiful Sunday</title>
		<link>http://www.jcurve.info/2007/10/21/beautiful-sunday/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Oct 2007 06:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Justin Lee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a beautiful sunday. Had a great hearty breakfast as the new kopitiam in the mall right by my place. Then went for some fresh air at the Alexandra Park &#8216;countryside&#8217;. Feels so good!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a beautiful sunday. Had a great hearty breakfast as the new kopitiam in the mall right by my place. Then went for some fresh air at the Alexandra Park &#8216;countryside&#8217;. Feels so good!</p>
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